The Best Hotels in Hawaii for Families with Little Kids
Hawaii is a dream destination for families, with its stunning beaches, warm aloha spirit, and plenty of kid-friendly adventures. But let’s be real—traveling with kids means you need a hotel that’s more than just a pretty view. You need epic pools, easy beach access, kid-friendly dining, and (bonus points!) a solid kids’ club to give you a little breather.
I’ve been to Hawaii dozens of times, have family who lives there, and have visited every visitable island. Based on that experience, these are the best hotels and resorts to experience as a family.
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Best Family Hotels in Maui
Maui is a wonderful island for beautiful views and slightly more variety of activities. While you can easily see Kauai in a week, Maui has so much to do and so many different vibes depending on the part of the island, that it’s worth visiting again and again. These are our favorites (read our full Maui post here):
Four Seasons Resort Maui at Wailea ($1,000+ per night)
If you’re looking for the ultimate splurge, this is it. With adults only Serenity pool, family friendly main pool with swim up bar, a lap pool, family activities, it’s a dream for families. Though still a large resort at 380+ rooms, it’s smaller than many of its neighbors.
There’s a reason why the Four Seasons Maui keeps winning awards. It’s the kind of place families return to again and again.
As Four Seasons Preferred Partners we offer the following benefits:
- Daily full breakfast for two people per bedroom, served in a hotel restaurant or through In-Room Dining
- Hotel/Resort Credit* (based on room category booked):
• Guest Rooms: USD 100 credit per stay
• Suites and Specialty Suites: USD 200 credit per stay
• Villa & Residence Rentals: USD 200 credit per bedroom per stay - Upgrade of one category, based on availability at time of check-in
Grand Wailea, A Waldorf Astoria Resort ($900+ per night)
With a nine-pool aquatic playground (yes, nine!), a lazy river, waterslides, a grotto, and a rope swing, this resort is basically a water park. Their Camp Grande (ages 5-12) offers art projects, cultural experiences, and nature walks, making it a great spot for families.
I stayed here a few years ago and had their tasting menu and it’s still one of the best meals I’ve ever had. It’s also located right next to the Four Seasons on a lovely beach. It’s a larger hotel with 844 rooms, suites and villas.
As Virtuoso advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Early check-in / Late check-out, subject to availability
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability.
- Daily Buffet breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom.
- $100 USD equivalent Hotel Credit.
St. Regis Kapalua Bay ($1200+)
With just 50 residential-style suites, Marriott — soon to be St. Regis — Kapalua Bay offers an intimate yet ultra-luxurious experience for families who want the comforts of home in a five-star setting. The resort features an infinity pool, a family pool and the indulgent Spa Montage, ensuring relaxation for both parents and kids.
The Paintbox Program (ages 5-12) keeps little ones engaged with arts and crafts, nature walks, and Hawaiian cultural experiences. Parents who hope to have a romantic evening will appreciate the hotel’s Children’s Night Out program (5-9pm). There’s even UPPAbaby gear rental! Most appealing to me as someone who prefers a boutique feel, the Montage is the smallest resort on this list.
As Virtuoso advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Early check-in / Late check-out, subject to availability
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability.
- Daily Buffet breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom.
- $100 USD equivalent Hotel Credit.
Andaz Maui at Wailea Resort ($800+)
With 320 guest rooms, including 35 suites and 30 luxury villas,, the Andaz Maui at Wailea is a sleek, modern resort that blends luxury with a relaxed island vibe. Families will love the three cascading infinity pools and lagoon pool, and direct access to Mokapu Beach, perfect for splashing and snorkeling.
While there’s no formal kids’ club, the resort offers plenty of family-friendly amenities. Plus, its prime location makes it easy to explore nearby Hawaiian wonders.
As Virtuoso advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability.
- Daily Buffet breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom.
- $100 USD equivalent Hotel Credit.
- Early check-in / Late check-out, subject to availability
Best Family Hotels on the Big Island
The Big Island is, as its name suggests, an island so large that it could contain the rest of the Hawaiian islands combined.
What most guests love about the Big Island is the feeling of peacefulness here. You’ll find smaller resorts and smaller crowds on this island, which makes it one of our absolute favorites. Plus, the resorts listed here are on one of the driest coastlines in Hawaii, meaning less chances of rain on your vacation.
Kona Village, Rosewood ($1200+ per night)
This is our hands-down favorite hotel in all of Hawaii. It’s unique in that each room is in its own distinct hale, meaning your own bungalow across this spread out resort – there is no high rise building here. Even the mountain view rooms have gorgeous views, and at only 150 hales, it’s incredibly peaceful. It has one of the healthiest reefs I’ve seen in Hawaii, and we loved all of the little extras like shave ice by the pool and Lilo and Stitch under the stars for kids.
They have a kids club for kids aged 5+, and kids under 4 eat free at all resort restaurants when dining with an adult. If you’re looking for something peaceful and truly unique, this is it.
As Rosewood Elite advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability
- Free nights not always publicly available
- Daily Buffet breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom, served in the restaurant ($120 daily value. Kids 4 and under eat free).
- $100USD equivalent Resort or Hotel credit, per room, per stay, utilized during stay
- $200USD equivalent Resort or Hotel credit, per suite, per stay, utilized during stay
- Early Check-In / Late Check-Out, subject to availability
Read our full Kona Village review here.
Four Seasons Resort Hualalai ($1,200+ per night)
The Four Seasons always delivers, and Hualalai is no exception. With a King’s pond with 1.8 million gallon swimmable aquarium with tropical fish, plus the Kids For All Seasons program, it’s a luxurious choice for families looking for top-tier service and amenities.
This is also one of the only hotels in Hawaii where it’s possible to book a suite with its own pool, something we highly value traveling as a family.
As Four Seasons Preferred Partners we offer the following benefits:
- Daily full breakfast for two people per bedroom, served in a hotel restaurant or through In-Room Dining
- Hotel/Resort Credit* (based on room category booked):
• Guest Rooms: USD 100 credit per stay
• Suites and Specialty Suites: USD 200 credit per stay
• Villa & Residence Rentals: USD 200 credit per bedroom per stay - Upgrade of one category, based on availability at time of check-in
Mauna Lani, Auberge Collection ($700+ per night)
Mauna Lani is solidly in the top 3 most luxurious beach hotels on the Big Island, and the value makes it so worth it. With plenty of rooms with ocean views and a kids club, multiple restaurants including Canoe House with a big lawn for kids to run around, and some great pools along with a calm lagoon, this is a resort we loved and would return to.
As Auberge Partners we offer the following benefits:
- Daily full breakfast for two people per bedroom
- $100 Hotel/Resort Credit
- Upgrade of one category, based on availability at time of check-in
- Early check in and late check out based on availability
Read our full Mauna Lani review here.
Mauna Kea Beach Hotel, Autograph Collection ($675+ per night)
With direct access to Kauna’oa Bay (one of the best beaches on the Big Island), a golf course, a tennis club, and a kids’ club (ages 5-12), Mauna Kea Beach Hotel is perfect for active families who love the beach and want a host of activities for the parents, too.
As Virtuoso advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability
- Daily Buffet breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom, served in the restaurant
- $100USD equivalent Resort or Hotel credit, per room, per stay, utilized during stay (not combinable, not valid on room rate, no cash value if not redeemed in full)
- $200USD equivalent Resort or Hotel credit, per suite, per stay, utilized during stay (not combinable, not valid on room rate, no cash value if not redeemed in full)
- Early Check-In / Late Check-Out, subject to availability
- Complimentary Wi-Fi
Fairmont Orchid ($600+)
Nestled along the Kohala Coast, the Fairmont Orchid offers a luxurious Hawaiian retreat with 540 guest rooms and suites. Families will love the private beach cove, lush tropical gardens, waterfalls, and the resort’s signature open-air Spa Without Walls. Kids can join the Keiki Club (ages 5-12) for hula dancing, arts and crafts, and nature walks, while parents enjoy five on-site restaurants and bars, stunning ocean views, and the relaxing orchid-filled grounds.
As Virtuoso advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability
- Daily Buffet breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom, served in the restaurant
- $100 USD Food & Beverage credit to be utilized during stay (not combinable, no cash value if not redeemed in full)
- Early Check-In / Late Check-Out, subject to availability
Best Family Hotels in Oahu
Oahu is the most popular island to visit in Hawaii and it’s no surprise why – it’s stunning and offers an international airport, as well as a bigger city vibe in Waikiki.
Four Seasons Resort Oahu at Ko Olina ($800+)
With 370 rooms and suites, the Four Seasons Resort Oahu at Ko Olina delivers an ultra-luxurious family escape with a saltwater lagoon, lazy river, and the serene Naupaka Spa & Wellness Center. The Kids For All Seasons program (ages 5-12) keeps little ones entertained with arts and crafts, nature walks, and Hawaiian cultural experiences, while parents enjoy kid-friendly dining options and impeccable service.
As Four Seasons Preferred Partners we offer the following benefits:
- Daily full breakfast for two people per bedroom, served in a hotel restaurant or through In-Room Dining
- Hotel/Resort Credit* (based on room category booked):
• Guest Rooms: USD 100 credit per stay
• Suites and Specialty Suites: USD 200 credit per stay
• Villa & Residence Rentals: USD 200 credit per bedroom per stay - Upgrade of one category, based on availability at time of check-in
The Royal Hawaiian, a Luxury Collection Resort, Waikiki ($600+)
Known as the “Pink Palace of the Pacific,” The Royal Hawaiian is a Waikiki icon with 528 guest rooms and suites, offering a blend of historic charm and beachfront luxury. Families will love the direct beach access, cultural activities, and kid-friendly dining options. While there’s no dedicated kids’ club on-site, young guests can join the Sheraton Waikiki’s Kids Club just a five-minute walk away for beach and pool activities, cultural experiences, and local excursions.
As Virtuoso advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability
- Daily Full breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom, served in the restaurant
- $100 USD equivalent Resort or Hotel credit to be utilized during stay (not combinable, not valid on room rate, no cash value if not redeemed in full))
- Bookings in our Historic Ocean Suites, Mailani Ocean Suites, or Prestige Suites will also receive complimentary roundtrip private airport transfers AND an additional $100 Resort or Hotel credit (for a total of $200 during stay)
- Early Check-In / Late Check-Out, subject to availability
The Ritz-Carlton Residences, Waikiki Beach ($800+)
For families looking for space and sophistication, The Ritz-Carlton Residences, Waikiki Beach offers 552 contemporary residences with all the comforts of home in a five-star setting. Guests enjoy direct access to Waikiki Beach, a stunning pool, and cultural activities that immerse them in the spirit of Hawaii. While there’s no formal kids’ club, the resort provides plenty of family-friendly amenities and dining options tailored to little travelers.
As Virtuoso advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability
- Daily Full breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom, served in the restaurant
- $100 USD equivalent Resort or Hotel credit
- Early Check-In / Late Check-Out, subject to availability
Aulani, A Disney Resort & Spa ($500+)
Disney fans, rejoice! This family-focused resort is packed with character meet-and-greets, lazy rivers, waterslides, and one of the best kids’ clubs in Hawaii. Even if you’re not a hardcore Disney fan (I’ll admit to being indoctrinated having grown up 15 minutes away from Disneyland), Aulani is a fantastic option for families looking for an all-inclusive vibe with tons of activities.
The garden island is the smallest and also the most lush of the Hawaiian islands. While it’s impossible for me to pick a favorite island, my absolute favorite hotel is located here, and it’s #1 featured below:
Best Family Hotels in Kauai
1 Hotel Hanalei Bay ($1000+ per night)
For a luxury experience that blends seamlessly into Kauai’s breathtaking landscape, 1 Hotel Hanalei Bay is a stunning choice. With multiple pools, beach access, and family-centered adventures, this resort makes it easy to enjoy Kauai’s natural beauty. Plus, it’s near the iconic Na Pali Coast and Hanalei Bay, so you’re in prime exploring territory. Plenty of family-friendly experiences like nature excursions and cultural activities are offered by the hotel.
1 Hotel Hanalei might have the best hotel view in Hawaii (or the world?) and has been recently renovated. It’s also one of the more boutique experiences on this list with 252 rooms and suites.
As Virtuoso advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability.
- Daily Buffet breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom.
- $100 USD equivalent Hotel Credit, applicable towards our Food & Beverage outlets or towards Spa Services.
- Early check-in / Late check-out, subject to availability
Grand Hyatt Kauai Resort & Spa ($600+ per night)
Located This resort is a kid’s paradise. Think saltwater lagoons, a lazy river, waterslides, and even a kids’ club called Camp Hyatt (for ages 3-12). Parents can indulge at the Anara Spa while little ones enjoy nature walks and arts and crafts.
This is the place to be for those who value lots of swimming options, large grounds, and lots of variety. It’s a bigger hotel with 602 rooms.
As Virtuoso advisors, we’re able to offer these additional perks:
- Upgrade on arrival, subject to availability.
- Daily Buffet breakfast for up to two guests per bedroom.
- $100 USD equivalent Hotel Credit.
- Early check-in / Late check-out, subject to availability
Read our full Kauai itinerary here.
Final Thoughts
Hawaii has some of the best family-friendly resorts in the world, whether you’re looking for an ultra-luxurious experience or a more budget-conscious stay. The key is finding the right balance of kid-friendly perks, location, and overall vibe. Whatever you choose, you’re in for an unforgettable family getaway filled with sunshine, sand, and (hopefully) a few moments of relaxation for you too!
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